ABSTRACT THOUGHT

It’s been sometime now that I have penned down anything for blog. Its not that nothing happened between my last post till today. But then I guess laziness spread all over my mind like a disease and recovering took little longer (home remedy is always slower compared to doctor’s prescription which comes with label ;-)). Enough of my sick and pathetic jokes otherwise you all will block my blog. I visited Switzerland in early April thought of writing down my experience but then that thought didn’t excite me much so with time it got erased from my mind. And after coming back my work didn’t leave my mind for good 10 hours. When the feeling of neglecting my blog started developing in my heart I thought of giving due respect to blogging and started to think on one topic which is kindda disturbing me from last couple of days.

Why for us others opinion matters so much?

Well this might not be true to some bunch of people but unfortunately percentage of this kind of people is negligible. Even for me sometime people opinion matters and sometimes I help myself not to think about them. Well the point is we all at one particular point in our life give people opportunity to affect us. Why it happens and when it happens is something which I failed to understand. We know what we want and what we are doing but still I think there is a room for doubt and people take advantage of that. Sometimes they hit you on something which you feared to touch even in your dreams. Lot of moments passed in my life where people affected me.
And I am not afraid to say that. Sometimes damage was too brutal and I had to take some time to gather my lost courage and above all myself. I have learnt from those instances and now I think I have outgrown those things and yes peoples comment don't affect me the way they use to do sometimes (still sometimes I think about them and for couple of sec it affects me). I have put label on my forehead 'I DON'T CARE'. One thing I must admit that those comments help me to think more on anything before acting. Someway or other while affecting me they nurtured my thought process and I am really thankful to them. They taught me to build bridge between my thoughts and my fears. I know now that fear of touching my fear is slowly disappearing from my life. But this is to look at brighter side of issue. But what if I had never come out of those comments? What if I have never gathered courage to face them? What if I was pull down and down and down in depression? Thankfully nothing like this happened to me but then it can happen to others. I don't know what the solution is for this and I am not able to find one. I don't think everyone can ignore the comments. Very few people come with don’t care attitude (and I wish I was one of them).

This piece of writing of mine is different from my usual writings (at least I think so) and it doesn't have any verdict or conclusion because I myself have no answer for this stuff. I guess Fear, Doubts are directly proportional to affect left by People. The more you have doubts and fear in your act the deeper you will get affected by comments made by people. So I think the best thing for anyone (especially people who don't have 'DON'T CARE' attitude and get easily affected by people/society) is to overcome their fears and doubts before they take any step further in making of their future.