Relationship

Relationship. Simple word but has ability to either destroy person completely or make person realize what it feels to be at the peek of happiness. But what I am talking here are two extremes, you might ask there can be middle band of relationship. What I think is no. Relationship can either be good or bad, the average or middle band is non-existence entity. Average relationship for me means compromise which I believe one should do but not without thinking what they are compromising. Compromising your individuality for a relationship for me is not a good deal. But again it is individual’s “choice”. I am happy to be in one sided relationship if that gives me immense happiness. But that will be purely my choice. Now I am not interested in writing about two extremes of relationship which exist for me but what I am talking today is about middle band which is far away possibility in my world. I am inclined to write about it because it is attractive something which is non-existence but exist in life of millions of people.

I don’t know about rest of the countries but I know in my country India – amazing place (this is marketing ;)) people get into relationship because of following bulleted points (this is my study)

1. Peer pressure (coz every single member of their group found partner)
2. Flaunt that you can get anyone if you want
3. You need someone from opposite sex to roam around with
4. You have to get married to someone so better do love marriage
5. Physical attraction
6. Social pressure

Maybe I am wrong….but note one point that I am talking about relationship which exist in middle band for millions. I personally believe that this happens because you are in relationship at the cost of your individuality. It’s sad but true that most of us don’t know what we are. If that’s the case then how can we understand what individuality is. I choose not to be in relationship just because I am progressing in my life in terms of age or because all my friends found someone or I am alone. I am single because I didn’t find anyone who can share the path to reach apex where happiness resides.

Verdict: I am single because I choose not to let middle band enter in my world . It is your choice how you wnat to live. Choose what makes you happy but not makes others happy.

(Note:- This entry is my attempt to answer those who keep asking me why I am not married)